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I write what hurts my feelings
The pain leads me to what is true.
Category: on Queerness
fight like hell for the living
It is never far from my thoughts that some of us have already said our last words to those who are beloved.
ugh
I have been in peri-menopause for a while now, at least three years, I think? Maybe more? I should be keeping better track.
I dream of disappointing my mother
I had a bad dream which was trying to be a good dream, but it was a bad dream because none of it is true.
what did I do this week?
I felt that I was playing favorites and hurting books’ feelings and my thought process got stuck there for a while.
TDOR: our safe spaces become violent
I want to remember my trans siblings today, but instead I have to witness from afar the same thing that always happens to us: violence, death, hatred.