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I write what hurts my feelings
The pain leads me to what is true.
Category: on Decolonizing
decolonizing death, part one of many
I am doing my best to find the most harmonious way to hold my candle in the darkness so that you can see it and find me, bringing your own light, so that we hav...
I could only lead you so far
Do you know what it feels like to be believed in? Have you experienced the incredible fortune of knowing that you matter?
apocalypse of the self
This is a reckoning that has needed to happen ever since the first harm was done. This is a chance to do it better this time.
on apocalypses
And we keep waking up every day, doing stuff, maybe doing more stuff, looking for the things that might comfort us, asking the world for meaning, and then we li...
a deathworker’s statement on Queen Elizabeth II’s passing
On this day, I acknowledge the grief of many while acknowledging the celebration by others. Such is the dichotomy that death presents to us, I suppose.