reaching toward the light
Trauma causes us to create new ways to behave, to keep ourselves safe, to keep the dark away.
Category: on Hope
I dream of disappointing my mother
I had a bad dream which was trying to be a good dream, but it was a bad dream because none of it is true.
a fire sale, if I had things to sell
What I could do, though, was witness it. So that someone was there and you weren’t alone.
decolonizing death, part one of many
I am doing my best to find the most harmonious way to hold my candle in the darkness so that you can see it and find me, bringing your own light, so that we hav...
on #NCOD
I’m not any binary of any kind; my gender is myself, which doesn’t — for me — need a word or phrase to describe it. It’s enough that I know that it’s my truth.
I could only lead you so far
Do you know what it feels like to be believed in? Have you experienced the incredible fortune of knowing that you matter?