on being Exvangelical – the Infinite

a POV looking downward at two feet on a sidewalk. the pavement is painted on the right with yellow arrows pointing downward, and scratched into the pavement above the feet is the phrase 'i tried'

on being Exvangelical/on Chosen Family/on Deathwork & Griefwork/on Generational Trauma/on Mental Health/on Praxis/the Work

great, this again.

Do you ever believe something about yourself so hard that even proof doesn't change your mind?

vandalized wall with hanging banner that reads 'we found love in a hopeless place'

on being Exvangelical

now that I’m found, I miss being lost

...it’s beautiful to be wholly yourself. And if there is a kingdom of heaven, it’s made of people who love one another.

a child reaching through a hole in a wall, stretching out an arm and making eye contact with the camera

on being Exvangelical/on Decolonizing/on Harm & Reciprocity/on Hope/on Praxis/the Work

I could only lead you so far

Do you know what it feels like to be believed in? Have you experienced the incredible fortune of knowing that you matter?

a black and white photo of me as a baby on my mom's lap. she is looking at me and smiling, and I am laughing.

on being Exvangelical/on Generational Trauma/on Harm & Reciprocity

born into it

I can still remember eight or nine-year-old me, asking my dad a question that was heavy on my young heart, hoping for an answer that would help me: why do we do...

in a dim foggy light, a small winding river is lined with tall grasses and snow-frosted pine trees

on being Exvangelical/on Chronic Illness/on Generational Trauma/on Praxis/on Queerness

can you see in the dark?

You aren’t alone; but the more alone you believe that you are, the more your messiah complex will be able to dictate your feelings and choices.

a warmly saturated photo of an infant on the left being gently touched on the head by a toddler (me) on the right.

on being Exvangelical/on Generational Trauma/on Harm & Reciprocity/on Hope/on Mental Health

shake the dust

I think one of the only things I can teach my kids is how to shake the dust from their feet when leaving is what’s best.