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january 5th journal

Posted on January 5, 2021 by Nix Kelley

It’s Tuesday, which is phone call day, so I had a bit of phone time with my soon-to-be-twelve-year-old. And ordered her birthday gifts so that at least so...

Nix Kelley

Genderqueer non-binary trans. They/them/theirs. Death doula, clergy-in-training, writing about queer identity, death, hope, praxis, & song lyrics.

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on Books I've Read
on Chosen Family
on Chronic Illness
on Co-Parenting
on Deathwork & Griefwork
on Decolonizing
on Generational Trauma
on Grief
on Happiness
on Harm & Reciprocity
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on Mental Health
on Neurodivergence
on Perimenopause
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the Pandemic
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I READ BANNED BOOKS

GENDERQUEER: a memoir (deluxe edition) by Maia Kobabe, read in one day in April 2023

We Do This Til We Free Us (audiobook) by Mariame Kaba, finished in May 2023

Be Gay, Do Comics, an anthology of queer comics, finished in June 2023

This Is How You Lose the Time War (audiobook), by Amal El-Mohtar & Max Gladstone, finished in one day in July 2023

We're each of us alone, to be sure. What can you do but hold your hand out in the dark?
Ursula K. Le Guin, The Wind's Twelve Quarters, Volume 1

remember who you are

The future cannot blame the present, just as the present cannot blame the past. The hope is always here, always alive, but only your fierce caring can fan it into a fire to warm the world.
Susan Cooper, Silver on the Tree